issala: (tallis)
Kas ([personal profile] issala) wrote in [community profile] therookery2017-02-16 05:19 pm

The age-old question

FORM: Sending Crystal
SENDER: Kas
RECIPIENT: Everyone
WHAT: More questions
WHEN: Today
WHERE: Skyhold
NOTES: Tiny teen qunari muses about not being tiny any more.


So at what age are you really an adult? I mean, not maturely but like... to other people. You say you 'come of age' and stuff like that but exactly what age is that in Ferelden? Here you can't join the army if you're under seventeen, which is fair. Does that mean you're an adult after seventeen?

I heard some rifter saying you can't drink unless you're eighteen or twenty-one or whatever. Rivain doesn't have a rule like that. I had wine when I was a kid, so I don't see the point of restricting it.

...but, like... at what age are you an adult? How old do you gotta be to marry someone without it being weird?

[Pause.]

Not that I'm marrying anyone!
arlathvhen: (54)

[personal profile] arlathvhen 2017-02-25 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
A comment of getting a room isn't appropriate for friends--and certainly not appropriate for you to make about a woman that you hardly know. Getting a room has connotations, and I understand that you are young, but you should at least know what kind of connotations you are making with your comments, and whether they are appropriate or not!

Neither, for the record, is describing me getting upset as hissing. That's condescending and rude.

I never said that you couldn't reply, you are perfectly welcome to reply to the things we discuss. What you can't do is make lewd suggestions to people and then protest when people get rightfully upset!
arlathvhen: (57)

[personal profile] arlathvhen 2017-03-02 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
[ The situation deescalated, Beleth now feels...kinda guilty. Not that she thinks she's wrong, but there were probably better ways to go about it. ]

...Thank you, Kas. And I'm sorry, too. For...being so snippy.