( if she's over it already then gwenaëlle feels comfortable ignoring the part that wasn't relevant to her at all (someone else's feelings), )

To be perfectly honest, I'm confused as to why you're still talking about 'wheeled chairs' as if it's an obvious given what they are and why they'd be relevant to the conversation at all. If you have some specific personal project that interests you, propose it to the Provost or use your own time and resources, but if you announce you're specifically interested in wasting resources that the people here need for the sake of, I don't know, your fairy tale wheel people, you're going to be corrected.

( she's not from orzammar or tevinter, she's from orlais, where rich people can just order elves to carry their palanquins and poor people who can't walk had better hope they look endearing enough to catch scraps,

there is perhaps an inherent disconnect here. )