You sound like an excellent fit for Research when you're finished being preoccupied with a war you're no longer fighting and start taking the time to see what the needs of this one are.

( she does consider it immense, courteous restraint on her part to have left 'that no one gives a shit about' out of the war she's no longer fighting. )

Try that. It'll do you wonders, since you certainly sound as if the thirty extra seconds of thought you're taking to wag your finger at me might have saved you the time several minutes ago.