Ah, I see.

Well, for me, romantically and sexually? Women are infinitely superior to men. ( Bluntly said, that. ) I look to marrying a man solely to secure an heir and strengthening my family, and so I consider it more a... business relationship. Securing a contract with someone whom I can work with for mutual benefit.

Perhaps this can be the same for you. Then both of you are free to pursue more indulgent pleasures, so long as you both fulfil the needs of the contract.