Of course it's unfair. You were ripped from your worlds and you've no more choice than anyone else; less. The anchor-shard binds me here whether I join or not, just the same. It's never been fair.

That doesn't matter. The Inquisition can't solve that problem for you, because nothing is fucking fair and no one gives a damn. If your only argument when it comes down to it is 'it isn't fair', you'll get what you're given. The civil war wasn't fair, either- your 'unfair' isn't uniquely more sympathetic than anyone else's. The Inquisition has done as much as it can, and there aren't better options. If you don't take advantage of what opportunities there are in that, no one can do anything more for you.

This is the situation that you're in. Whether it's fair or not is irrelevant. You should know what's being thought and said because what is happening matters.